https://www.britishmuseum.org/collection/image/893630001
https://www.britishmuseum.org/collection/object/P_1949-0411-892?selectedImageId=399138001
... of the seven deadly sins, the eighth and most horrid is emotional blackmail ... whilst for this blogger, the only sacred thing is life itself
SOMEPLACE WITHIN THE INACCESSIBLE SHADOWS OF MY MIND THERE LURKS THE GHOST OF A QUOTE ... I THINK IT WAS A KIND OF RECURSIVE STATEMENT ABOUT UNDERSTANDING AND ANTICIPATING THE PURPOSES WHICH OTHERS UNDERSTAND AND ANTICIPATE ... BUT IN A KIND OF RECIPROCATIONG LOOP ... FINITELY, NOT INDEFINITELY ... AND IT MAY HAVE OFFERED A WAY OF MEASURING OTHER PEOPLE'S ABILITY TO UNDERSTAND COMPLEX SITUATIONS AND THOSE SITUATIONS' FUTURE DEVELOPMENTS ...
https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/intentionality/
https://www.azquotes.com/quotes/topics/intentionality.html?p=1
https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/medicine-and-dentistry/paradoxical-intention
https://philpapers.org/rec/GLVTPO
found it !
i had copied it down for a blog in 2007 !
https://emotionalblackmailers.blogspot.com/2007_08_09_archive.html
co-pilot makes a useful summary of ORDERS OF INTENTIONALITY ...